What to know when seeking a Colombian Bride

Colombia is a poor country and has a rising reputation for relationship fraud. Of course there are plenty of good, beautiful and honest women seeking marriage with foreigners. There is also an active population of scammers, fraud schemes and old fashioned gold diggers. Some women seek financial gain and lifestyle upgrades, an escape from poverty. Others are actually seeking a loving relationship, marriage and something new and exciting. How to tell this difference is the big question.

If she asks for money, put the brakes on. Beware of family or medical “emergencies” where the woman needs cash and financial support fast. Know that sending money via Western Union is likely lost in the event that she’s a scammer. Understand that the scammers are professional criminals and are very difficult to distinguish between an honest and trustworthy woman.

Educated yourself by reading about scam and fraud methods. Knowing about the different scams will help you recognize any foul play. The schemes and fraud efforts vary in strategy, but all have one thing in common, money. Money is usually requested in the form of advance fee fraud, where the criminal needs help with school, medical, rent, family, visa, etc. You can read more about the fraud types at Wikipedia’s site for relationship fraud and advance fee fraud. This is a major step in prevention.

Once you understand the fraud types and warnings signs, consider a trip to Colombia. Get to know her and her country. See for yourself who you’re dealing with. This is a key step in not only preventing fraud, but also important in establishing a meaningful relationship. Take time to get to know her. A Colombian woman in a hurry to marry is a major red flag and warning sign.

Lastly, if all checks out, get a professional background check by a firm with a local presence in Bogota and Barranquilla. Wymoo offers confidential investigations and has years of experience dealing with potential brides and relationships in Colombia.

Best of luck, and do your homework!

A. Hathaway

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If you are a “gringo” captivated by the beauty and vivacious nature of Latina women there are some things that you’ll need to learn to succeed with these beautiful, mysterious women. First, it isn’t necessary for you to be fluent with your “espanol”. As long as you can say a few words, such as “gracias”, “como estas?” and “eres muy guapa” (you are really cute) to her, then most latina women will find this very endearing and be intrigued with you.

Just by the fact that you have said something to her in her language, you don’t need to worry about coming up with a clever opening line to start a conversation. 9 times out of 10 she will ask you how you learned to speak Spanish (and only if you speak 2 or 3 words in reality, but she doesn’t know this yet). She will probably offer to teach you more Spanish if you ask. So the conversation has already begun, without the need to use a corny pick up line on her.

If you still need help with finding something to talk about, then ask her about her favorite food from her own country. Women love to talk about food, especially Latin American women. You might actually be sorry you asked, because she might go on and on about food from her country. That is when you should ask her the next question, which is obvious: if there are any good restaurants in town that serve food from her country, whether it be Mexican, Cuban, Colombian, etc. and ask if she wants to go there for dinner with you sometime. Very few latinas will turn you down if you approach them this way, unless you come on too strong or they already have a man.

On the date, it’s important for you to know that it’s not a good idea to come on too strong with a latina, with these women it’s better to take it slower than you would with a “gringa”. Latin women are very concerned with being respected and not being used, due to the “machista” attitude of many men in their own countries.

Use this to your advantage because as a “gringo” she will think you are more respectful and honorable. Take it slow with her at first, and believe me, you will be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams later.

You can learn many more free tips about dating latinas on my blog listed below. Good Luck!

By: Monica Garcia

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When you have just ended a long term relationship, the period after that is a difficult one. Most of the guys will be wondering what will happen? Will they ever get a new special woman in their life? I think it’s easy for men to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship.

Getting back to the “dating game” is not as hard as what you guys think. If you know how to go out anytime to meet women, you should not be afraid at all, because those set of skills are still deeply rooted in your brain.

When you know how to go out anytime and meet women, you will have the following benefits:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you will never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ending a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many of you guys stay in relationships that are bad for you, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women.

When comes to dealing with competition from other guys when you are out of the “dating game” for a long time, there are actually 2 reasons to find the root of the problem.

1) INSECURITY. When you are insecure and do not trust yourself, you will always fear that someone else CAN snatch away your girlfriend/date. This is a bad thing because it then clouds your thinking, and creates an illusion that the woman you’re with is BETTER than she is, and that you’re WORSE than you are.

2) Jealousy. Jealousy is useless, and it can leads to stupid emotion like anger and anger may leads to violence. Women hate violence. If you resort to violence, I can bet that she will leave you immediately.

Therefore, you will need to feel confident about yourself first, so that it will not lead to jealousy. Women are attracted to guys who are confident, and if she wants to leave, you can’t stop her anyway. And if she really leaves, just look for a new woman! Why fear?

By: Crid Lee

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For men getting over a divorce is far more difficult than what women imagine. And the idea of dating again is much like preparing to face a firing squad after one has already been hung at the gallows.

Having gone through soul-sucking divorces and blood-letting breakups myself… only to discover the love life I most wanted… I felt it my duty to share some of the key information I picked up along the way. I want to let men in on the little bits of truth, which made all the difference in how I approached women.

The first thing I did was to stop looking for women anywhere near where I lived and started to strictly date, love and enjoy relationships with women from other countries.

Not just any countries either. I chose very specific countries for their culture, social development and excellent women. Here’s a list of the best 7 places on planet Earth where the most affectionate, loyal and humorous women are waiting for the right man.

1) Costa Rica: The country has dual coasts, one faced the Caribbean Ocean and the other faced the Pacific. The women are dear, honest, hot and savage. Yet they are wholesome and innocent all at the same time. You may make this your new home.

2) Brazil: This country is pure magic. The women here seem like fairytale fairies. You will think you are having a waking dream. You will go back over and over, just to see if you ever wake up.

3) Cuba: No words can describe this forbidden fruit. The last modern paradise running over with delicious mother watering treats. Cuba is the playground of the elite where untouched wonders come alive in your hands for the first time.

4) Colombia: The country is beyond enormous. The hyped news is only a half truth. It’s ladies are succulent beings drenched in feminine wiles. Hundreds of Americans visit Colombia everyday. Just like Chicago, there are parts you can visit and places you must avoid.

5) Dominican Republic: This tiny island is a king’s ransom of brilliant sun tanned mulatta queens. Time moves much slower here than in other places of the world. The values of yesterday are still alive here and these ladies pride themselves on pleasing their man.

6) Venezuela: Home to five Miss Universe Titles! It has legendary waterfalls and I’ve personally met Venezuelan mothers and daughters who were both so jaw dropping sexy and so lady like in everything they did, it would be impossible to easily pick one over the other on a date.

7) Argentina: From first hand knowledge, Argentina lives passion. If you enjoy European women with a Latin twist these blond knockouts are exactly what you seek. The food, wine and romance found in Argentina strips the bullshit out of life.

If you think you would like to of visit one of these countries and date some of the foreign beauties found residing in them, you can really jump to the front seat in the ultimate adventure ride by meeting women from your favorite destination over the Internet first.

Use free sites such as Facebook, MySpace and Twitter to meet ladies. By meeting the women now, you will literally have all the dates you want waiting for you ahead of your arrival.

The Big Trick

The big trick is to be you, no lies or pick up artist games are needed.

The rules to Internet success with international dating and winning over the heart, mind and body of the perfect foreign angel are simple.

1) Meet lots of women online. You are making friends over the Internet not getting married. Wait till you are face-to-face and have gone on a few dates before falling in love.

2) Never send any money for any reason to any person you meet online. Stop communicating with anyone who does ask you for cash. Men posing as women run most of the cons. And you can only become a victim if you don’t keep your money where it belongs… in your pocket.

3) Make sure you do actually get on a plane and visit with your new friends. This is without question the most mind-blowing part of the experience in dating foreign ladies. And it is a must if your goal is to find true love or discover the lover you have been looking for.

So when you are ready to finally hold a honey-delicious creamy vixen in your arms and make her yours… when you are finally ready to start dating again and realize what you have been missing all this time… do yourself a favor skip the local bar scene and give love beyond border a try.

The lover, friend and wife you have been searching for is only one mouse click away! May your adventure be sweet and your success sweeter!

By: Carlos M Duran

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